- Memories of his father
Many mothers wonder how to explain to a child the father's absence.The problem comes about from the moment when the baby for the first time goes to kindergarten, and notes that all the other children have two parents, and from him - only mother."Why is my friend from the garden takes dad and my grandmother?" The answer to this question truthfully can be extremely difficult, but also to understand how to raise a child without a father, too, is not easy.
If the daughter begins to ask questions about what happened to her father, to give a simple and clear explanation of what is happening, most likely, will not work.Sooner or later, talk about the father will emerge more and more.But even if my daughter would ask about his father every day, angry at her for it in any case not worth it.Repetition works on issues of children comforting, especially if they have not received a satisfactory answer.However, the most difficult issue tha
When it comes to raising children in a family without a father, you should try not to speak about his former companion bad.At the same time, there must be a logical explanation for the fact that it is not.Otherwise, the daughter may decide that it happened was her fault, and such findings should be avoided at all costs.Because the worst thing that can bring to differences in the family - the child is thinking about how to avenge his father.
When it comes to raising children in a family without a father, you should try not to speak about his former companion bad.At the same time, there must be a logical explanation for the fact that it is not.Otherwise, the daughter may decide that it happened was her fault, and such findings should be avoided at all costs.The worst thing that can bring to differences in the family - the child is thinking about how to avenge his father.
explain daughter why her father does not take part in her life, it is extremely important, but this should be done carefully so as not to harm the child.Thoughts about what parents separated because of her, could seriously affect the self-esteem daughters.In order to avoid this, it is best to take a neutral position.If the father does not communicate with his daughter because of a break with the mother in the family situation is best explained by the fact that he was too young and not ready for such responsibility.In the case if he is dead, he will have to help their daughters understand how to cope with the death of his father.
There is a fine line between explanation that the father can not participate in the life of his daughter, and his prosecution of all troubles.In order not to disturb this line, it is important to find the strength to forgive your ex for everything that he did or did not do.In this case, it will be much easier to tell a child the truth.If at some stage the daughter will wonder about how to establish a relationship with the father, the mother there is a risk of another turn into an enemy.That is why it makes more sense from the beginning to take a neutral position, in spite of everything that happened between her and father children.
Raising a child without a father, will inevitably have to live through memories of it again and again.Like it or not the mother, the daughter wants to know about his dad as much as possible.If it does not receive information from his mother, there will always be "good" people who want to help her in this.